It's only natural to feel that way,I'm serious,because I know.heh!But really ah..Time will only tell wether you're truly bestfriends or lovers turn out to be.Coming from me a guy,my point of view alone,It's up to your decisions as what you truly want to stay as friends or try become lovers.'Sometimes' if you hide it long enough that love/crush feeling will go away.If it doesn't you'll only truely know the answer,that you can never be his 'girl bestfriend' and yeah..;)
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Thanx for answering my question!.... Yeh I guess me and my best.f, we are always going to be friends. Lol but there was a weird moment in which he was staring into my eyes for minutes, I was staring back thinking damn I felt so strange...like wth!! ...I knew at that moment we were falling for eachother...omfg!....I knew this will ruin our friendship, so I had to stop it somehow. The way I did this was I always told him I see him as a adopted long lost brother..literally I did this everytime we talked....I do it so often..erm I hope its not annoying lol..I hope its working. Idk? Do u think this is a good idea? Is there another way to stop him falling for me?.... Tcx ( I wanna remain annonymous..cos I don't want him or my freinds knowing my silly situation) x
Well in my point of view,you REALLY cant stop love from happening nor love can it be bought.I can't ask you to avoid him if you don't wana be falling in love with him coz it won't be a nice solution but more like a harsh and last resort kinda reason.because 'feelings' is something that just comes.Yeah itis irritating for you to bring it up almost everytime about the 'adopted long lost brother'thing,if you really wana know,heh.maybe itis working maybe its not.depends on the individual on how well he can take it.you see during the staring moment you knew you was falling in love with him too right?haha,so there's easy potential.if you really don't plan to fall in love,maybe just take it slow see where your heart brings you.Like I said maybe if you avoid it long enough,it'll be gone?other then that I really have no say or solutions to literally stop this force..if he really intends to persue the feeling,he will confess.and IF when the time comes and still you have no intentions of falling in love too,then you'll have to be honest with him on your thoughts.It'll be heartbreaking for him of course,but if he understands he'll stay around to be friends.but if he expect you to understand him,den im sorry to say,things can only go so far.you know people come and go in your life.it's normal.and to have a best fren of the opp sex,is hard.ive a female best fren name Ella if youre a follower of my blog.been with her for over a year.sometimes we do fall for each other even while im dating other girls in the same time,it cant be help.but if ur frenship is meant to be,it will..relax alright? ^^
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